What Positive Reinforcement Actually Means

Positive reinforcement is a core principle of ABA (Applied Behavioural Analysis) Therapy and simply means rewarding a behavior so it happens more often. The reward doesn’t have to be a toy or a treat - praise, a high-five, extra play time, or access to something the child enjoys can all be effective reinforcers. The goal is to help children learn which behaviors are helpful, safe, and socially appropriate by making those behaviors meaningful and rewarding.

Why It Works So Well for Children

Children repeat behaviors that feel good or lead to positive outcomes. In ABA, therapists identify what motivates a child - whether it’s attention, sensory input, or a favorite object—and use that to strengthen desired behaviors. Over time, these rewards become naturally built into daily routines, and children begin to perform the behavior without needing frequent reinforcement.

How Parents Can Use It at Home

Positive reinforcement works best when it’s consistent and immediate. If your child follows a direction, uses a word instead of a gesture, or stays calm during a routine, acknowledging the effort right away helps them link the action to the reward. Simple phrases like “Great job using your words!” or “I love how you’re sitting calmly” can make a big difference. Reinforcement doesn’t create “bribery” - it creates motivation, confidence, and a clear understanding of expectations.